Example Letter To Spouse To Save Marriage (Use This!)

Marriage Clever
3 min readAug 27, 2020

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It can be easier to write your feelings than express them out loud (trust me — I get that). This example letter to spouse to save marriage when it’s on the rocks can give you an example of the kinds of things to write.

Important note: Take your time with the letter. Don’t attack yourself, don’t attack them and focus on how you feel. Express your regret of where you are and where you want you both to be.

You can absolutely use this letter as an example of the kinds of things to say but please don’t copy it word for word. Nobody can write this letter for you so use the idea, use elements from it but please write this letter yourself.

Every marriage is going to be different in some way, shape or form. Hopefully the advice here will help give you some guidance but if you want some more specific advice then take a free marriage assessment quiz. It can help fix the underlying problems, not just address the symptoms.

One of the most painful experiences in the world is when you find that your marriage is on the brink of falling apart or something isn’t right. Love is truly a remarkable gift, but what if the love you once shared isn’t enough to make things work?

Marriage is full of bliss and joy, there are days when darkness takes over and you’re unable to fix things to the way it was before. However, a marriage that’s falling apart isn’t completely hopeless. In fact, all it may take is a single letter to make them remember everything. In the following, we’ll be providing a letter to spouse to save marriage.

To the love of my love,

I know our marriage hasn’t been working the way we expected. However, this is the reason I’m reaching out to you through this letter. I want you to know and remember my unconditional love for you. No matter how much confusion and pain we’re going through, never forget the fact that there’s nothing I won’t do for you and for our marriage. The moment I said yes to being your spouse, I promised that I would love you no matter what, for better or worse.

I need you to remember that no matter how bad our marriage gets, I won’t give up on our marriage and I hope the same goes for you. I’ll love you even more in moments where our marriage seems unstable as this is the season where you need the most love. This letter serves as a reminder than I’ll never stop choosing you, no matter the odds, and that our marriage is my highest priority. There’s nothing more significant to me than making our marriage work in order to have a happy and contented life together.

I’m sorry for the moments where I lack in terms of love, patience, and understanding. Even when it seems that I’ve given up, there’s no way that I’ll easily let our marriage fall that easily. I’m sorry for not being the person that you deserve or for when it seems that I’m not meeting your expectations.

As my spouse, I’m thankful for everything that you’ve done for me. I promise to make it up to you in the things that I lack such as quality time and making you feel more loved. Marriage is the most beautiful thing in the world and there’s no way I’m taking that for granted, especially with you as my spouse. For better or for worse, I’ll stay and I’ll ensure that you feel the intensity of my love and my commitment every day. I married you to be your partner and the love of your life, and that doesn’t stop at any point in our marriage. I hope that you use that little spark of hope left to ignite our marriage back to life and to fix whatever needs fixing. I love you and I plan to show that every day through both my actions and my words.

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Marriage Clever

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