How To Win Back Your Wife’s Heart (Quickly)
Love does not die. It is simply pushed into the background. If you really want to win back the woman in your life, you need to speak to her heart. That is, provoke her feelings in your favor. Wondering how to do this? Relax. In this post, we tell you how to win back your wife's heart and develop a happier, stronger, and loving relationship.
Every marriage is going to be different in some way, shape or form. Hopefully the advice here will help give you some guidance but if you want some more specific advice then take a free marriage assessment quiz. It can help fix the underlying problems, not just address the symptoms.
1. Be a gentleman and romantic
Women worship the “prince charming” who gets off his horse to rescue them from the evil villain. Yes, maybe for you it is too cheesy, but the truth is that they prefer a sensitive being, that is attentive, says nice things to the ear, wants to eat by candlelight, and above all, that overflows love and fidelity. Therefore, if you’re going to win back your wife’s heart, then it is good that you consider these feminine desires.
Remember the details which made you fell in love with her at the beginning. Put them into practice to soften her heart, especially if you hurt her a lot. This does not mean that from one day to the next, you have to give her chocolates and flowers, take her to the movies and have dinner out, sing her love songs or dedicate poems to her. Start slowly, with a small detail that makes her feel loved.
2. Buy her gifts
Use small gifts to show that you thought of her during the day. Take her your favorite flower, or pick a flower wherever you go and tell her that you found that flower so beautiful that you had to pick it up as a gift for the woman you love. Take to her the candy or food she likes best, and tell her you brought it just for her.
Buy a little gift, like a chain or a teddy bear (anything will do), and tell her that when you saw that, you couldn’t help thinking about her. The next time you walk through the mall, pay attention to the reactions she has in front of the windows. If she really likes something, go back and buy it for her.
3. Praise her
Praise makes all the difference. A sincere compliment, placed at the right time, can make any woman fall in love again. Look for something in it that you sincerely appreciate, but that you never mentioned. It can be the beauty of the hands or another part of the body (Yes, praise the appearance and the body of your woman, no matter how old she is or how many pounds she has gained). If you love her as she deserves to be loved, you will see a lot of beauty in her.
The important thing is that she understands that you appreciate her. To do this like a pro, look for three different things to praise her all week. You will be surprised how she will fall in love with you more than you ever imagined.
4. Show her loving attitudes
There are a few small gestures that can make all the difference in the relationship. Create an album of memories of the most special moments. If it already exists, let her see you leafing through the pages with a smile on your face. When she approaches, start talking about those special days, and how she made you feel special in those days, and how she still does.
Take the initiative to wash the dishes after dinner, even if it is her turn. Iron not just your clothes before you leave the house, but hers. Spend time with your kids doing something special (watching TV doesn’t count), so she can relax. A man who takes care of his children has a special value for any woman.
When she is sick, take care of her, buy medicine, wrap her in the blanket, bring soup, etc. When the time comes for the dreaded PMS, buy chocolates, and take them to her. Arrive earlier than her and fix the house. Do something that she really wants to do, but knows that you hate it (do it for her).
5. Declarations of love
Call her in the middle of the day, just to say you love her. When introducing her to a friend, don’t just say, “this is my wife,” be romantic. Say, for example, “I want you to meet the person I love the most in the world.” Take chances to express your affection in public. Hold her hand when you walk down the street, kiss her gently in front of everyone. During an event or walk, stop suddenly, look into your eyes and say, “I LOVE YOU.”
6. Show interest in her
The attention you give to your wife is probably the best thermometer of the love you feel for her. Understand that you will never learn everything about your wife. She will always surprise you with new things.
Therefore, the next time you are together, try to discover something new about her, paying attention to the details. Ask questions that help you express your dreams and feelings. Ask her how she sees your relationship ten years from now. Ask her if she still has a dream she would like to fulfill. Ask her what she imagined her life would be like when she was a child, etc. Listen carefully to each word, and show that you care about her.
7. Never force any situation
A woman needs to be respected. Making her feel forced to do anything will only upset her even more. You can come up with your ideas, but you need to understand and accept her wishes. Forcing her on anything is also an assault, and no violence is justified.
Many husbands want to win their wives’ hearts with a few words, but the fact is that without profound changes in behavior, they are unlikely to succeed. It is important to point out that relationships are built for two people. Therefore, it is only worth investing in the relationship if the other person is heard.
Conclusion
You’re partly part of how your wife reacts. But remember, love is a powerful force than many believe. If you can arouse respect and attraction in your wife for you, she will naturally begin to let her guard down and re-establish a bond of love with you.
