Signs My Separated Wife Wants To Reconcile (and What You Should Do)
What are the signs my separated wife wants to reconcile? Does she want to get back together?
Separation is not the end of a marriage. Sometimes it can even be the thing which puts you both back on the right track but that doesn’t happen if you’re both just hoping for the best.
What are the signs you should look for that she’s interested? And (perhaps more importantly) what should you be doing to get her back?
Every marriage is going to be different in some way, shape or form. Hopefully the advice here will help give you some guidance but if you want some more specific advice then take a free marriage assessment quiz. It can help fix the underlying problems, not just address the symptoms.
Show me one marriage that hasn’t run into a problem at some point during the relationship, and I’ll show you a thousand that have. Most problems blow over, some take longer to work out, and some come to an abrupt end. What may first seem like the end of a marriage, could be the breathing space both couples need, and there could come the point in time when your wife wants to return. So, you may ask, what are the signs my separated wife wants to reconcile?
A marriage breakdown coincides typically with a decline in communication. It’s when these channels of communication are reopened again by your wife that you can maybe start to believe she wants to patch up any difficulties and reconcile. We’re not talking about a text, WhatsApp message, or an email here; this is about a full-on one to one phone call, instigated by her and often, it’s a sure sign she’s showing interest in your life.
These phone calls will more than likely take on the form of a game of fishing, whereby your wife will want to find out if you’ve moved on or still have feelings for her without asking you outright. It’s more than likely going to have to be you that takes the hint here if you want to move a step closer to reconciliation.
Is she always talking to your friends about you asking questions? What she’s doing here is trying to get a clearer picture of how your life stands at the moment, and it’s a sure sign that your lady wants to make up. There’s nothing quite like reminiscing about the good times and when she starts to bring up fond memories of your time together, you can bet she’s cast aside any thoughts of past problems and wants to get back together.
Is your wife showering you with kindness and compliments, always mentioning how well you look? She could be doing this directly or indirectly by referring this to your friends or family. Whichever way she’s doing it, take it has a green light that a reconciliation is on the cards.
It may be a coincidence but more likely not when your wife always turns up at places you regularly visit. It stands an excellent chance it was pre-planned because she wanted to bump into you, of course, she’ll deny it, so it’s not worth questioning it, just be happy in the knowledge that she’s more than likely got thoughts of getting back together on her mind.
The phone calls, the kind words and the seemingly coincidental meetings are one thing, but when your wife is forever asking you to meet up with her, you can bet there is only one thing on her mind. She wants to mend bridges and get your marriage back on track, and what’s the betting she’ll turn up looking more fabulous than ever. If you were looking for a sign that your separated wife wants to reconcile, it’s standing there right in front of you.
